Amanda Gesselman, PhD

Scientist & Expert in Technology, Intimacy, & Sexuality

Amanda Gesselman is a social–developmental psychologist and research scientist at The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. Digital intimacy is a major focus of her research, including how people use tools like camsites, AI companions, dating apps, and social media to navigate connection and desire. She conducts the majority of this research in collaboration with the VIBES Reseach Team.

Beyond the digital realm, Dr. Gesselman also studies broader relationship dynamics, including communication between romantic partners, experiences of being single, and how relationships can serve as sources of resilience or support during health challenges like epilepsy. She supervises a team of graduate and postdoctoral researchers who receive extensive training in research methodology and statistical modeling as they conduct research related to these themes.

Dr. Gesselman’s work has been featured in top media outlets including The Atlantic, The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Netflix’s Explained series. Industry partnerships have been a defining feature of her work. She’s worked closely with Match, LiveJasmin, Clue, Lovehoney, DatingAdvice, and others to develop research that advances science and has real-world impact. She’s always open to exploring new partnerships with platforms, brands, or organizations interested in conducting innovative, scientifically grounded research on sex, relationships, or digital connection. Use the form below to begin a collaboration.

Recently published works

Here are some of Dr. Gesselman’s most recently published studies. Click here to view her Google Scholar page, or click below to view her full CV.

Recent media coverage

The Atlantic

The Growing Belief in ‘Love at First Sight’

Yahoo! Tech

How AI is helping singles match better online

Boston Globe

More than 75,000 singles have taken this annual survey about sex and dating. This year’s results are in.

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